Friday, December 6, 2013

Out of the mouth of babes

D's prayer tonight:

Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for this great day.
Please bless that Jesus had a good day.
Please bless that I can give Jesus all my power, because I love him.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Friday, November 15, 2013

Some random stuff

It's been way too long since I've blogged, and I have some random stories and thoughts to share.

B2 can appropriately sing "All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth" -- both of his top front teeth are missing right now. Daddy helped him pull the first one (it was barely hanging on, and frankly it was gross because it was sticking almost straight forward) and D helped him pull the second one. Yes, that's right, D. It was just after bedtime, and I was catching up on the recent episode of Downton Abbey when B2 came running in to show me his bloody mouth. B2 then told me his brilliant strategy for removing the tooth -- "I took a hanger and bit down on it, and then D pulled as hard as he could and the tooth came flying out! But now I can't find it. Will the tooth fairy still come?" I sat dumbfounded for a second, and then busted up laughing. It was an ingenious strategy, and very effective. After I told B2 to go tell his dad the story, he went back in his room and looked some more, and was able to find the tooth.

A's two most recent developments are the addition of "No" to his vocabulary (though, unfortunately, he predominantly says it in a whiny voice; it's cute now, but it's going to get old fast)--and, with the ability to say no comes the exercise of and insistence on his own will, resulting in some battles now about whether or not he'll eat certain foods or get out of the bath tub--and his love of clapping. He applauds EVERYTHING--the dentist, his brothers, the TV shows, putting away bath toys, and Mommy's cooking (I particularly love this last one). It does make things slower at times though. For example, the other day A was in the bath and I tried to get him to pick up his toys and put them in his basket. He would pick up one, put it in the basket, stop, clap, look expectantly at me, I'd clap, he'd clap again, and then he'd go to the next toy. Sometimes he waits for me to do it so that he can clap for me. I do love getting praised so much for simple things like changing diapers and refilling sippy cups.

Last week was our ward Primary Program. It was phenomenal. The leaders had done a really good job with the kids, who were very well behaved and sang all the words nice and loud. B2 and D both said their lines into the microphone loud enough without screaming, breathing heavily, or spitting on the mic. And, as an added bonus, D entertained the ward by slightly-screaming the songs, waving at us, leading the music, and giving thumbs up after his speaking part. I may or may not have encouraged such behavior... ;)

Baby #4 is growing quickly. I'm getting people saying that I'm popping out, which is both depressing and reassuring (at least I'm not the only one that things I'm getting huge). I still have 13+ weeks to go. We don't know if this baby is a boy or girl, but we are assuming boy simply based on our track record. And, as far as names, I think we are worse off than before. We have barely discussed names, but so far we've only eliminated names (well, more accurately, I've proposed names and B1's shut me down). Since I've picked all but A's middle name, I suppose I should just pick out the names I like and start wearing down B1's resistance.

A absolutely ADORES animals! He loved feeding the goats at the pumpkin patch (he wasn't scared at all!!), and there's a neighborhood dog that looks kinda like a Shih Tzu that he loves to pieces. He screams with excitement every time he sees this dog, and cries the saddest tears when I tell him it's time to go home.

Note: anyone who tries to give A an animal for Christmas will suffer a horrible, terrible fate. You have been warned!

And, last random thought for this post: this Sunday is my niece Nom Nom's baby blessing. Right now my parents and Beez are at Rinz's house having fun together without me. I so wish I could be in Arkansas right now. (There's a phrase I never thought I'd say.) I still haven't seen baby Nom Nom other than through pictures, and she's so dang cute! I have the cutest nieces!!

Monday, October 7, 2013

Halfway!

As of today, I am 21 weeks and 1 day pregnant, so I am past the halfway point! It's so weird to think that I'm this far along, since I'm still not as heavy as I usually am when I get pregnant, let alone when I'm halfway there. I haven't had a lot of morning sickness for the past two months or so, but I do have eating fatigue, where pretty much nothing sounds good to eat (except maybe candy, but then only eating candy on an empty stomach makes me feel worse!). But, my weight gain isn't low enough that the doctor is worried.

Today, we had our major ultrasound. And, to answer the first and obvious question, no, we still don't know if it's a boy or girl. We are going to be surprised! Everyone else is convinced that this one is a girl due all the differences in my pregnancy, but I used the same logic with A (my pregnancy with him was so different than with my other two!) and clearly that wasn't accurate. So, you'll all just have to wait until February like the rest of us to find out.

The ultrasound went well. The doctor said everything looks great, and I think the profile picture looks a lot like AJ. Interestingly though, this baby's head is only measuring at 20 weeks and a few days...in other words, SMALLER than normal. Odd, since my babies have ginormous heads! Maybe I'll have a nice, easy delivery this time. Ha!

The best part of the ultrasound? This!


The doctor caught the baby yawning! How cute is that?!?!?

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Funny things D says

D: "Mom, is this [football goal post] from Home Depot?"
Me: "Yes, it is. How did you know that?"
D: "Because I have BRAINS!"

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

YW, and getting old

At YW tonight, we had a member of the stake presidency come speak to the girls about the temple. He began his talk by asking the girls to write down what they think their lives will be like in 15 years. One girl a few seats down added it up and said, "I'll be so old--I'll be like 30!" Yes, ladies, this is what old looks like.

Surprisingly, it didn't really bother me. I succumbed to the realization that I was old last year when I officially kissed the 20s goodbye. Though, it's a little daunting to be fully sailing into my 30s next week--I'm not really "barely past the 20s" when I'm 31. Sounds a little desperate to be still using that phrase.

If anything, this little activity made me laugh. Some of the girls shared what they wanted their lives to be like. All were 15 or younger (that shared), so they were all talking about their late 20s up to 30. Their lists included things like graduating college, getting married, having babies, and the like. Some were more specific ("I'll be pregnant for the first time") and some were more vague ("I have no idea what my life will hold in 15 years!"). But, each one made me smile at how much better my life is than I had initially planned.

When I was in YW, I had my life planned out. Here's how it went:
  1. Graduate high school when 17.
  2. Go to my favorite university, and major in Psychology.
  3. At 21, go on a mission, probably foreign, and hopefully Spanish-speaking.
  4. At 22.5, come home, resume education.
  5. Complete Bachelor's degree. Start Clinical Psychology Ph.D program.
  6. Graduate at 28. Starting working as a therapist for rape victims.
  7. At 30, get married (as the last one of my friends--they all got married young, like 19 or 20). Marry a hot, tall (6'0"-6'3"), Spanish-speaking return missionary who is also a lawyer and has already agreed to live on the same street as my two best friends, B and L. Get married in Los Angeles temple. Best day ever!
  8. Sometime after 30, maybe have kids--I mean, I'm supposed to have kids and all that.
Yep, that was the plan. And it worked pretty well...up to #2. I did graduate at 17, I did go to my favorite university, and I did major in Psych. And...then began the deviations. I had not planned on a semester in Nauvoo, without which my life would have a huge, gaping hole. I did not plan to meet my husband when I was 19 (okay, only a few days before I turned 20, but still!), and did not plan to actually be convinced not to serve a mission (not by him--he was completely supportive, though he made no false promises about waiting for me). I did not plan to get married at 20. I did not plan to stop my education after receiving my Master's degree. I did not plan to have a child at 23, or work in Human Resources, or live in Utah. I did not anticipate the strong urge to quit my job and stay home with my kids.

Little did I know how much better my life could be than what I had planned! My scariest nightmares are ones where I lose my husband or child(ren), and those ones haunt me even while awake. I never thought I'd stay up late crying because some child I had never met on the other side of the country had something horrible happen, and I realized my own inability to protect my children from the evils of the world. I would never have understood the joy at watching my sons play soccer, at the way a simple hug or grin could make my day go from horrible to perfect in an instant. I would never have felt the frustration at taking photo after photo, and editing said photos for so long, and never being able to capture all that is amazing about my children.

Yes, they can be stinkers. They can drive me crazy when they stain my already-ugly carpet, shake my bed when I'm green to the teeth with morning sickness, or constantly interrupt ("Mom....Mom....Mom....Mom..."). But they are the best part of my day, and I'm so lucky that my plan almost completely derailed. But, thank goodness I still married the hot, tall, Spanish-speaking return missionary. Otherwise, I might have some ugly children. ;)

Thank goodness that's not the case.

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Chastised in public...well, sort of

Our home teachers came by today (on the first! Yes, they are awesome). B2 was sharing a story about the party we attended yesterday at my aunt and uncle's house. He had been outside playing football while the adults were inside watching the BYU/Virginia football game on TV. So, he was telling the home teachers all about it, and then said,"Dad needs to stop watching TV and come outside and play with his son!" We all just burst up laughing. Point taken kiddo.

Incidentally, B2 has a seriously perfect spiral when he throws a football, and can throw pretty far. He has already asked to play football, so I better get myself prepared for that.

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Funny Things D Says

While playing with a Buzz Lightyear toy:

D: "Do you know what 'I come in peace' means? It means he wants to be friends."



Just before blowing on a dandelion:

D: "I wish I wish I wish I was in California!"

(Incidentally, how do kids learn that you get to make a wish when you blow on dandelions?)